This is a big question in codependency healing--to stay with your partner or not. It is likely your partner is the main person you experience codependency with. Delving into the relationship's challenges may even be the reason you discovered you have codependent tendencies. This likely means there are relational challenges, and that makes you consider if this is all worth it. Or it at least makes your friends really loud with their opinions on your relationship!
Today I share questions I pose with clients about just this situation. I touch on long suffering, what is your line of acceptable behavior and has it already been crossed, and is their actual behavior change or just talk? I discuss that no one call tell you when to leave, and it's actually okay if you don't want to. This means, however, that you have to 'put down the rope' and work on yourself (tune in to find out what THAT analogy means!)
PS I think I did an entire episode without swearing. I didn't even try to or mean to! Let me know if I'm wrong and you heard a few cuss words I just forgot I said. Lol!
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