The Soul Amplified Podcast

Are You on a Decoy Path to Peace?

August 18, 2022 Vanessa Grace Season 1 Episode 174
The Soul Amplified Podcast
Are You on a Decoy Path to Peace?
Show Notes

Lots of beliefs held by codependent persons are attempts to get peace.  They are all decoys that, while they do have moments of peace, are not attuned to reach peace in the long run. 

These attempts at feeling peaceful are Decoys because they are all predicated on making sure another person makes the choices that you find peaceful.  As soon as they deviate from what you would prefer, you are shit out of luck again on your peace. 

Codependent persons are, in general, seeking love, validation and belonging.  There is nothing wrong with this--we are all hard wired for that.  But they are doing it at the expense of loving themselves and giving themselves what they need.  This is not a way to experience peace. 

Peace is an inside job.  It is about feeling peaceful no matter what is happening outside of you with the other people in your life.  If your peace is only possible if everything around you is perfectly in control the way you would like it, including the people, you will not experience peace.  People do what they want (or rather what they are ready for, or what they can handle emotionally, or what their unhealed trauma tells them to do....you get the picture). 

Seeking peace by saving others, ensuring the addict in your life is taking care of themselves or continuously trying to get the emotionally immature person in your life to understand your perspective is a recipe for only occasional moments of celebration and success.  It is not a sustainable path to peace.  It is a decoy.  Turn inward.

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