Can you make someone happy? This is a subtle yet ever present assumption in the lives of many codependent people. The unstated goal. The holy grail, even. There are so many ways to unpack this question, and I riff on the possibilities today! Some things I ponder include the following questions....
Can you influence someone's happiness level?
Is a person open to being happy?
What is your motivation for causing happiness?
Are you interested in causing happiness, or avoiding conflict?
Pondering these questions--and more--on a deeper level opens you up to the real complexities and joys of human relationships with self and others. How deep do you want to go?
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